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The thing about friends with benefits is that, often, only one person gets all the benefits. Among the young, who typically do not yet know how to establish equality or mutuality in relationships, friends with benefits frequently functions to service the physical needs of boys while overlooking the more subtle emotional needs of girls.

Women are pretty much wired to form emotional attachments to men they are intimate with. That’s why having friends with benefits can get confusing. You feel attached to him, expect him to feel the same about you and so you want him to demonstrate some caring, certainly by not being overly affectionate with other girls. It’s not the sex that makes friends with benefits a bad bargain for young women; it’s the nature of the deal–lack of equal emotional involvement of the partners. As for me, I don’t care any more, I just want to fuck the hell out of those nice bodies.